what one feels when one discovers s/he is cheated? n what one experiences when s/he is cheated time n again ...for how long can one be patient n forgiving?

i think people basically donot change...if there  seems any visible change in somebody,it is only on the superficial level . A testing time appears and they jump to their original self without blinking their eyes...this is the case with all of us.

so is it wrong to categorise a person according to his/her personal trait (of course in the mind only) and expect accordingly .by that can we minimise our hurt?.

or  should we develope a patience level to forgive a person for infinite no.of times.

what exactly is the way to deal with people with incorrigible habit of cheating u..

any clues...? would like to know all your views on this